Real Kids Speak Out

merubah hidup

saat saya sd,saya pernah mengalami di bully.. saya di kucilkan selama 5 tahun,saya tidak pernah bermain atau di ajak bermain.. saat guru memerintakan untuk bekerja kelompok,tidak ada yang ingin sekelompok dengan saya. saya merasa sedih dan stress. saya tidak punya teman di sekolah maupun dirumah.orang orang tidak pernah peduli terhadap saya. saya berusaha menguatkan diri saya. saya menyendiri disana dan tak tau saya harus cerita kemana..saya berpikir untuk menjauhi mereka..saya tersakiti oleh sikap dan tingkah laku mereka terhadap saya.. saya tau saya bisa.saya selalu bersemangat walau tampa teman.dan saat saya pergi meninggalkan sekolah itu dan lanjut ke sekolah menegah atas. saya mempunyai teman baru yang menerima saya. dan itu sangat merubah hidup saya.saya tak lagi perlu takut saya percaya diri untuk pergi. dan itu merubah hiduup saya. tapi kadang kesulitan dalam pertemanan itu sangat memberatkan dan menyakitkan. sahabat kadang membuat kita iri terhadap orang dan kadang merendahkan diri ku juga. kadang sahaat ku banyak peraturanya. iya aku tau tidak ada yang perfect. tapi aku tidak tau harus bagaimana. aku bercita cita menjadi seorang designer atau penyanyi seperti demi lovato. saat aku mengenal pacer itu membuat aku bersemangat.dan aku ingin mensharing apa yang aku pelajari dari website ini. aku akan mengenalkan kepada sekolah ku teman ku sodara ku, serta lingkungan dimana aku berada. apakah aku bisa ikut dengan komunitas ini. aku ingin menghilangkan intimidasi dari teman ku ke teman ku yang lain. aku ingin mengajari mereka. an merubah pola pikir mereka terhadap bullying,merubah kebencian menjadi pertemanan. membantu teman teman u berbicara terhadap apa yang mereka alami. aku ingin membantu mereka yang putus asa. karna aku tau posisi mereka yang di bully. karna aku pernah di bully juga. aku ingin merubah sisi negativ dari oran yang membuly kita. dan aku sangat berterimakasih kepada pacer 🙂

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change of life
as I sd, I never experienced in my bully .. isolate for 5 years, I have never played or were invited to play .. when teachers memerintakan for work groups, no one wants to group with me. I feel sad and stressed. I do not have any friends at school and dirumah.orang people never care about me. I am trying to strengthen my self. I was alone there and did not know I had to stay away from the story kemana..saya think mereka..saya hurt by their attitude and behavior towards me .. I know I am always excited could.I even without teman.dan when I left school and up to the high schools. I have new friends who accept me. and it is transforming the lives of me.I no longer need to fear me confident to go. and it changes my hiduup. but sometimes difficulties in friendships that are very burdensome and painful. friends sometimes makes us envious of people and sometimes demeaning myself too. Sometimes my sahaat much unregulated. yes I know there is nothing perfect. but I do not know what to do. I dreamed of becoming a designer or a singer like Demi Lovato. PACER as I know it makes me bersemangat.dan I want mensharing what I learned from this website. I will introduce my friend to my school my Sodara, as well as the environment in which I was. if I could go with this community. I want to eliminate bullying from my friends to my other friends. I want to teach them. late change their mindset towards bullying, hatred becomes perte manan change. helping friends u talk about what they experienced. I want to help those who are desperate. because I know their position in the bully. because I’m never in the bully as well. I want to change the negativ side of the membuly oran us. and I am very grateful to PACER 🙂

Stop it

I got bullied when I was in year 6. There was a girl that I was best friends with I used to think she was really nice. But I was wrong. We were doing maths and I got all the questions wright but she didn’t . I was very happy that I got them all right but she saw my book and started whispering ‘know it all know it all’ I told her to stop it but she kept saying it. We got into an argument and from that day she made my life a misery. She upset me on the carpet and my eyes got all teary then I heard her whisper to my friend ‘oh look the baby is crying why don’t we call her mummy’ they both laughed and the bullie kicked me in the back and said it was an accident. Then one day when we were playing football in PE I was against her i was dribbling the ball to the net and the bullie elbowed me out the way and kicked my leg. Then at the weekend I invited my two best friends to my house and I decided to tell them my problem. They told me that they were both being bullied by her. We told the teacher and guess what… She stopped bulling us. That is how you make them stop it!

The time when i got bullied

I got bullied a lot when i was younger. I was called fat and ugly and it happened every day! I didn’t tell anyone because i thought no one would believe me. It still happened and i finally told a teacher and they helped me. If you are getting bullied tell a teacher or someone you trust.

i am sorry poem

I am sorry that I was mean
I am sorry that I was green
now I will never do that again I hope you won’t do that and be a bully like I was

This is me!

I never understand what I did.
Couldn’t comprehend.
I try and try but to you I’m always a foe not a friend.
I take all you give, but there is only so much before my heart becomes too thin.
Chours!!!(I am different.
But the things you say won’t make a difference.
I am me.
And I’m free to chose who I want to be
Cause This is me.)
I ain’t saying I’m perfect.
There are things I regret
but equality I will try to spread.
I’m confident.
but still a little on the soft end.
Do you not see who you hurting?
Words like that shouldn’t be thrown around like nothing.

(I am different.
But the things you say won’t make a difference.
I am me.
And I’m free to chose who I want to be
Cause This is me.)
It takes a lot to say something.
Not sure what did?
Just talk to a friend.
And in your mind repeat these lines.
(I am different.
But the things you say won’t make a difference.
I am me.
And I’m free to chose who I want to be
Cause This is me.)

Confessions of a Bully

Last year when I was in the second grade, I made fun of a boy for bringing a Barbie doll to school. I convinced a group of kids to come with me and tease him. He started crying and I got in big trouble. My mom explained why I hurt him so bad and she made me write him a letter to apologize, but I still felt bad about it. I wanted to make it up to him and make sure no one ever teased him like that again, so I started an anti-bully club at my school. We meet once a week at school and talk about positive behaviors. We now have over 180 club members! I made a video to show at my club and a lot of people are telling me how much they like it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nod06e3GwNc

bully

I got bullied at recess by a kid,i felt sad then angry and it put me in a bad mood for the day.

A Little Different

I have three boys, 28, 19 and 17. My youngest, Elijah was diagnosed with aspergers a few years ago but is In a main stream school and doing very well. When he was in middle school and even elementary all the kids noticed that he was a little different and thought that gave them the right to start teasing him and making fun of him. He has been beaten up, jumped, etc. I have become a big advocate against bullying because of everything we have been through with him. Now that he is 17, he has somewhat learned how to stick up for himself. At his school they do a lot of fundraisers for autism, cancer, etc. but I have yet to see one for bullying so I thought, why not make a proposal to them about unity day and have everyone wear orange to raise awareness. I was a little skeptical at first and really thought nah, that won’t go for it, low and behold I got a phone call from the high school counselor letting me know they all thought it was a great idea and are willing to work with me on getting the posters put up, having everyone wear orange and even raising funds and donating them to PACER!! I am more than thrilled to get this going and wanted to say thank you to you for having a website that allows students, parents, teachers etc. to have the opportunity to get resources on this very important topic.

Who Am I? I Am Me.

I walk like this because i am me, i talk like this because i am me, my hair is like this because i am me, i dress like this because i am me, my walk my talk my style i am me and forever will be my mommy always told me just to be me because everthing comes together so perfectly i am just who i should be and thats me makayla.

butterfly

There was a butterfly that did not want to go outside because they bully her how would she feel about that? One day she talked with her counselor that something was going on. She felt that she she was alone. One day she felt strong she went outside and open her colorful wings she said ” look at me now ” spredding her colorful wings.